Searching for matches
Whether or not you have signed-up as free member, you still can do a basic search for matches. Many of our web pages contain a small search so you can see if there is someone special that interests you. If you have not signed-up, you will only be able to see those matches and no details.
How to join? (It's free)
Joining is simple. Select join from any of our pages and complete the small form provided. Make sure you enter a unique user name, and upon completion you will be invited to log into our system. Click here to join
Member Area
Once you have logged into our system you will be able to access many of our member features. Some of these features will ìpay onlyî features. If you select a ìpay onlyî feature, you will be prompted to upgrade your free subscription to a paid plan. Our plans our very reasonable and we have a number of options to suit your needs.
My Profile
Once you have logged into our membership area, you will be on your profile page. Make sure you take the time to complete all the profile questions, comments, etc. to assist you in finding matches.
My Photos
This section allows you to upload photos of yourself (in jpeg format, no larger than 100k in size).
- Choose a solo shot for your primary photo. Add 4 additional photos for your 'More Photos' Section. Be sure to check the box next to the photo you wish to be Primary.
- Please note that you must appear in each of the photos - we will not post photos of children or pets only.
- Photos of cartoon characters or celebrities are copyrighted and cannot be posted.
- Nudity, obscenity, sexual or otherwise offensive photos will not be posted.
- Photos can only be in the JPEG format (.jpg). Image files can be no larger than 100k.
- All photos must be named with real characters. No spaces or symbols. Please use the underscore as a space if you needed.
My Audio/Video
In addition to our photo section, we offer the ability for you to submit a video and/or audio file
- Audio or Video must be of you. Material that is copyrighted by others cannot be posted.
- Nudity, obscenity, sexual or otherwise offensive audio or video will not be posted.
- Audio formats can only be in WMA, WAV or RA format. Audio files can be no larger than 1000k.
- Video formats can only be in AVI, WMA, MPEG, MOV, or RA format. Video files can be no larger than 1000k.
- All audio/video files must be named with real characters. No spaces or symbols. Please use the underscore as a space if you needed.
My Matches
This section is where you will search and hopefully find your match. We have included different options to help make this easier.
My Searches - Allows you to view any searches you have saved. In order to use this, you must first either do a quick search or a detailed search.
Quick Search - If you wish to do a quick search based on basic criteria, use this feature. You can save this search and it will appear in our 'My Searches' section.
Detailed Search - If you want to search for your match based on expanded criteria than use our Detailed Search feature. Choose from many profile items to narrow down your choices for a match. We recommend that you start with a more simple search to start and then work into this feature.
My Favorites
This section is used to store any matches that you add to your favorites "wish" list. If you find a match you like, you have the option of adding that match to your 'wish list'. If you have added someone to your 'wish list', then you can view them whenever you select 'My Favorites'.
My Black List
This section is the exact opposite of "My Favorites". We have provided the option for you to add someone to your "black list". If there is a match you dislike you can add them to your "black list". You can view anyone on this list my selecting "My Black List". You can remove matches from this list too.
My Notes
If you do a search and find a match you like, you can add a note to yourself (like a little personal organizer) about that match. Selecting "My Notes" allows you do view and manage your notes.
My Messages
We have provided online mail/messaging for you to make contact with your matches. It works very similar to web-based email.
My Inbox - this is where you receive messages from others
My Outbox - this is for your outgoing messages
My Messanger
This section is for you to have online chat with matches. Currently it is unavailable but will be released in the near future.
My Account
This area displays what plans you have paid for or, if you don't have a subscription plan, it allows you to choose from diffent ones. For your security and convenience, we use Paypal.
Log Out
Select this to exit and logout from your member account.
